A woman’s confessions: How to tell if an orgasm is faked

Today, practically everything we know about sex is due to porn. Today’s society has such easy access to porn videos and sexual content on the internet that it has become second nature to talk about or know how to access it. In fact, teenagers are starting to get into it earlier and earlier. The ease of accessing adult content sites with a computer or internet phone has led to a sharp decline in the age at which people start viewing this content over the last 20 years. However, what we see does not reflect the sexual reality of today’s society. A preconceived idea that too often bears no resemblance to reality. 

Moreover, when personal experiences are maintained and do not resemble it, disappointments and complexes are created. Nowadays there are an infinite number of practices, fantasies and positions when it comes to having sex. So many that there is no way of knowing if it has been good or bad as soon as it has happened. Although some do know, leaving no room for doubt. While some do search for “how to get trt” for better performance.

Many people define how well relationships go by the number of orgasms they have or even by how long it takes. But is this a reliable measure? In these matters it seems that everyone has an opinion and none of them is wrong. In the end, there are so many different ways of practising and enjoying sex that there is no single way that everyone likes. And if not, just tell that to the prepaid women in Bogotá who see it every day.

That is why most experts recommend knowing your own body well and letting yourself go. Because if you don’t know what you like or if you are thinking about everything you have to do afterwards, you won’t enjoy yourself.

This is when the problems begin. Especially in couples when they fall into monotony and no longer enjoy their sexual relations. The moment when they fake orgasms to finish as soon as possible without harming the other person and continue with the next task.

That is why many people end up resorting to sex workers such as independent call girls in sloppy porn, or even to other lesser-known professionals such as sex coaches. The latter are professionals who are dedicated to helping couples discover how to enjoy all relationships more. In addition to the reasons why they don’t understand each other in bed, which is very important.

But why fake it?

The reasons why so many people do it are varied. But more specifically, the ones who are most accused of doing it are women, because, in the end, for men it’s much more visual. Because, in the end, in men, thanks to ejaculation, it is much more visual. Is it true?

First of all, female pleasure is often somewhat more complex than male pleasure even when using sex toys. In fact, many men are at a bit of a loss as to how to produce it. Many prefer to pretend and finish first if they see that their partner is not on the right track. Others don’t feel like it, but since their partner does, they pretend to finish so they can devote themselves to other things. There are also those who, in order to avoid complexes and to hide shyness, prefer not to prolong the act too much. Or simply so as not to disappoint the other person and impress them. 

Is it really that important?

To meet expectations, to prove that you can become a real porn star. Having desire at all times, enjoying all the practices… It is something impossible unless you have a training in the field of sex, as in the case of the beautiful female escorts available in Auckland.

But living in society, we also seek to please the other person. But what we don’t think about is that this generates more insecurity than anything else. On many occasions the question arises as to whether it was faked or if it was real. And if so, and why. The blame usually falls on oneself.

Although according to surveys most women have faked an orgasm, they claim that it was due to tiredness and stress. In other words, they don’t want to let their partner down. So when someone is in this kind of situation, it is better to be able to talk and communicate. So that everyone involved in the sexual relationship can enjoy it without unnecessary worries.

How to detect them?

It is clear that when you regularly have sex with the same person it is usually easier to detect whether they are faking or not. You know better how they moan, how they act, as well as their expressions, positions, etc.

But there are other things to pay attention to in order to notice. For example, the rhythm of breathing, heart rate, sweating, dilated pupils, body temperature, and so on. It may not seem like it, but there are some things that cannot be easily imitated.

A question of two

When it comes to sex, no one is alone. It is something that most of the world’s population does to a greater or lesser extent. And the important thing is not that only one part of us enjoys it, but all of us. Because being able to give so much pleasure to someone else is often a source of even more pleasure for oneself. You have to take care of your relationship. Be affectionate, have details with your partner so that the relationship flows and does not suffer wear and tear or effects that could cause it to break up.

So it is important to take the necessary time for each caress, kiss, bite and so on. To test the sensitivity of every part of the body. In this way, everyone will have the opportunity to enjoy true orgasms and all the benefits that derive from it.